When Jodie started talking about how good it would be to go on exchange last year I initially dismissed it as simply teenage wishful thinking. She knew I had been on exchange and I did take the opportunity to tell her of some of my experiences. The subject of exchange became something she started to [...]
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I am saying bon voyage to my daughter as she heads to Japan
Posted in My personal story, creating amazing, life, mother, teenage girls, women, tagged jodie exchange afs on March 15, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
The Stonewall has come down
Posted in My personal story, family issues, relationships, teenage girls, tagged family issues, relationships, teenage girls on December 23, 2008 | 1 Comment »
I thought since some people have read the story about Miss A stonewalling me that it was worth writing about a young Miss A (now 18 and a half) showing much more maturity. In the 18 months she was living elsewhere she discovered life can be tough and getting what you want is difficult. She [...]
IT finally happened!
Posted in My personal story, emotional well being, life, self awareness, self esteem, tagged Depression, life, motivation, success on September 21, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I did it…thanks to my sis…I got to meet the almighty guru himself Craig Harper. (I will add a link later – for now this is my story!) Ok…so he made me laugh, almost made me cry…but has definitely got me back on track as I put my life on a hoist, poke it, prod [...]
It has been 12 months
Posted in My personal story, emotional well being, mental health, self awareness, self esteem, separation on April 28, 2008 | 2 Comments »
Hmmm…12 months have passed so I guess I should check up on how I am doing. I have had my moments recently so its probably a good time to get real about a check up. The signs are good, very good in fact.
Some Boats need to be rocked
Posted in Depression, Finding your real self, anger, can do, creating amazing, emotional well being, family issues, mental health, self awareness, self esteem, tagged anger, confrontation, Depression on March 5, 2008 | 1 Comment »
I just came across this article: http://www.speakstrong.com/articles/speak-strong/boats.html
I just can’t say it much better - I have covered this topic before, so I won’t ad…except to say yes this is important6 for my journey of confrontation!
Enuff!
Confrontation
Posted in Depression, Finding your real self, Getting unstuck, My personal story, anger, coping, creating amazing, emotional well being, learning, letting go of the past, life, mental health, self awareness, self esteem, tagged confrontation, obstacles, passive-aggressive, selfconfidence on February 26, 2008 | 3 Comments »
‘You have a problem with confrontation’ ( a psych nurse)
‘You have not confronted the most important person yet - yourself’ (My counsellor)
Yikes….my body is wracked with fear and anguish. My experience of confrontation is negative….scary…frightening. Confrontation means I will upset someone, rock the boat, stand up for myself (and I always seem to fail at that). The last person I want to upset is me. I have already rocked my boat by giving up on my marriage….so what exactly does [...]
What do I want to achieve?
Posted in My personal story, can do, coping, creating amazing, emotional well being, life, love, men, mental health, self awareness, self esteem, separation, teaching, tagged recovery goals partygirl career on February 8, 2008 | 2 Comments »
Ok…so I have moved on…am getting better – now what? Like what exactly are my goals? What do I now want to achieve? I have spent the better part of the last 6 months playing and having fun but essentially I am goal driven and not a floater. Floating has been fun but I [...]
Ummm…Normal makes me ill
Posted in My personal story, artist, can do, creating amazing, mental health, self awareness on September 5, 2007 | 1 Comment »
Well I am inspired again this morning by none other than CH as he writes about being a ‘wierdo’. Ok…I am a wierdo..cos ‘normal’ just doesn’t fit!
Key quotes:
I still regularly feel out of place and like I don’t belong or really fit in.
Ummm not as clever as some, not as sexy as others, different tatses [...]