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The People Pleaser

Posted in Depression, Dragonslaying, Finding your real self, My personal story, creating amazing, emotional well being, ex husband, life, men, mental health, relationships, self awareness, self esteem, tagged on February 9, 2008 | 1 Comment »

Well I wish i had written this myself but I didn’t. Reading it was like looking in a mirror and seeing the old me….not a pretty site is it?
Check it out here
The words doormat are still there – but fading fast….anyone got some really good stuff I can just clean them up with
 
 

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What do I want to achieve?

Posted in My personal story, can do, coping, creating amazing, emotional well being, life, love, men, mental health, self awareness, self esteem, separation, teaching, tagged on February 8, 2008 | 2 Comments »

Ok…so I have moved on…am getting better – now what? Like what exactly are my goals? What do I now want to achieve? I have spent the better part of the last 6 months playing and having fun but essentially I am goal driven and not a floater. Floating has been fun but I [...]

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Taking a small step to express my anger

Posted in Depression, Dragonslaying, anger, creating amazing, emotional well being, ex husband, learning, men, mental health, mother, relationships, self awareness, self esteem, separation, women on July 29, 2007 | 2 Comments »

When I was a child I was not allowed to express my anger at what I perceived to be injustice or unfairness. If I did, I was accused of being ungrateful. I had to be ‘good’ and it was somehow my fault if I was bad and I was never able to day something or [...]

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The Chameleon

Posted in Dragonslaying, anger, ex husband, family issues, men, mother, relationships, self awareness, separation, women on July 10, 2007 | 1 Comment »

A Chameleon is a changeable, fickle, or inconstant person. That’ my ex. After the tirade of abuse I got on Sunday, and again on Tuesday after I went researching the impact of hie threat to go bankrupt to hurt me, he came back on Thursday eating humble pie! On Tuesday after I questioned him he [...]

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The Curse of financial commitment

Posted in Depression, anger, emotional well being, ex husband, family issues, letting go of the past, men, mother, relationships, self awareness, self esteem, separation, women on July 1, 2007 | 1 Comment »

Well what can I say to start this off? I am separated but connected. Connected by the mortgage document my ex and myself signed a number of years ago. And darn it we have still not sold the house! It has been 3 months, we’ve lowered the price but until it sells neither of us [...]

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I don’t admire couch potatoes or gunna do’s.

Posted in My personal story, anger, can do, emotional well being, ex husband, family issues, men, relationships, self awareness, separation on April 18, 2007 | Leave a Comment »

There’s this guy ‘Cactus’ at From Couch Potato to Olympian.  I really gotta admire the way Craig has approached his support of Cactus here. I know it’s a blokey thing – not my style. But hey – if my dear ex hubby had mates like this just maybe, (a big maybe) he could be a [...]

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Upset the apple cart and see where the apples fall!

Posted in Depression, Dragonslaying, My personal story, anger, can do, creating amazing, emotional well being, ex husband, family issues, life, love, men, mental health, relationships, self awareness, self esteem, separation, women on April 16, 2007 | 2 Comments »

I heard this quote on the radio the other day. I am in the middle of crawling out of a hole of deep and dark depression and one aspect of my life that took me into this hole was the ‘do not under any circumstances rock the boat’ way of approaching life. Instinctively I knew this [...]

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