‘You have a problem with confrontation’ ( a psych nurse)
‘You have not confronted the most important person yet - yourself’ (My counsellor)
Yikes….my body is wracked with fear and anguish. My experience of confrontation is negative….scary…frightening. Confrontation means I will upset someone, rock the boat, stand up for myself (and I always seem to fail at that). The last person I want to upset is me. I have already rocked my boat by giving up on my marriage….so what exactly does [...]
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Confrontation
Posted in Depression, Finding your real self, Getting unstuck, My personal story, anger, coping, creating amazing, emotional well being, learning, letting go of the past, life, mental health, self awareness, self esteem, tagged confrontation, obstacles, passive-aggressive, selfconfidence on February 26, 2008 | 3 Comments »
The ‘get your shit together challenge’
Posted in My personal story, can do, creating amazing, emotional well being, ex husband, family issues, letting go of the past, life, mental health, mother, self awareness, self esteem, separation, teenage girls, women on August 29, 2007 | 1 Comment »
Ok..I fess – I am in awe of Craig Harper his style, his manner, his writing, his whole site….and now he has thrown down a challenge I cannot ignore – the Get your shot together challenge’. See…(assuming you took took that link!) no airy fairy nice as pie language from this motivator [...]
The Curse of financial commitment
Posted in Depression, anger, emotional well being, ex husband, family issues, letting go of the past, men, mother, relationships, self awareness, self esteem, separation, women on July 1, 2007 | 1 Comment »
Well what can I say to start this off? I am separated but connected. Connected by the mortgage document my ex and myself signed a number of years ago. And darn it we have still not sold the house! It has been 3 months, we’ve lowered the price but until it sells neither of us [...]
The body language must have said it all!
Posted in Depression, can do, creating amazing, emotional well being, letting go of the past, life, mental health, relationships, self awareness, self esteem, separation, women on May 4, 2007 | 2 Comments »
I am feeling so excited, appreciated admired and even loved at work…and that is something I have not felt for a long time! For the past 3-4 years I have been a very lonely person in a workplace of 100 staff. Few people gave me the time of day and to be honest at times I [...]