Posted in Depression, Dragonslaying, Finding your real self, My personal story, creating amazing, emotional well being, ex husband, life, men, mental health, relationships, self awareness, self esteem, tagged selfesteem on February 9, 2008 | 1 Comment »
Well I wish i had written this myself but I didn’t. Reading it was like looking in a mirror and seeing the old me….not a pretty site is it?
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The words doormat are still there – but fading fast….anyone got some really good stuff I can just clean them up with
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Posted in Dragonslaying, Finding your real self, Getting unstuck, My personal story, can do, coping, creating amazing, emotional well being, letting go of the past, life, mental health, self awareness, self esteem, women on October 23, 2007 | 2 Comments »
My favourite blogger and mentor has done it again! He has written a timely reminder for me..well of course not just for me but there is something about his timing I am sure – positive in fact!
“Stop wasting your life on crap you can’t change”.
Lets take a little peek at where I may have [...]
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Are you a parent with a 17 something teenage daughter that thinks she has the man of her dreams in her life and who bends the rules at every opportunity…I am and sad to say but I have had to bring to the fore tough love – problem it’s it feels tough on me too. [...]
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Posted in Depression, Dragonslaying, anger, creating amazing, emotional well being, ex husband, learning, men, mental health, mother, relationships, self awareness, self esteem, separation, women on July 29, 2007 | 2 Comments »
When I was a child I was not allowed to express my anger at what I perceived to be injustice or unfairness. If I did, I was accused of being ungrateful. I had to be ‘good’ and it was somehow my fault if I was bad and I was never able to day something or [...]
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Posted in Dragonslaying, anger, ex husband, family issues, men, mother, relationships, self awareness, separation, women on July 10, 2007 | 1 Comment »
A Chameleon is a changeable, fickle, or inconstant person. That’ my ex. After the tirade of abuse I got on Sunday, and again on Tuesday after I went researching the impact of hie threat to go bankrupt to hurt me, he came back on Thursday eating humble pie! On Tuesday after I questioned him he [...]
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Posted in Dragonslaying, My personal story, anger, family issues, life, mother, relationships, self awareness, separation, teenage girls, women on June 21, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
In our separation, all the current hype and advice is the kids come first. He says ‘The kids come first’ but he does not DO the ‘kids come first’. He just does not think of their needs, and what may be good for them – he much prefers to consider what suits him, what is [...]
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Posted in Dragonslaying, My personal story, anger, family issues, life, love, mother, relationships, self awareness, separation, teenage girls, women on May 26, 2007 | 2 Comments »
Prelude: If you have been following this story you know I have separated from my husband and Miss 17 was not coping with the living arrangements so she lost it. Miss 17 is wanting to cut loose and leave both of us:
“I don’t want to live with you at Grandma’s. I don’t like her. …I am [...]
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Ok…I am getting daily mailings from Brian Kim and this image just made me smile:
Think of your mind as a hose out of control spraying every which way. You want to grab control of the hose, turn off the negative thoughts that are spewing out, and hook up your hose to positive thoughts and spew [...]
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Posted in Depression, Dragonslaying, anger, can do, creating amazing, emotional well being, family issues, life, love, mental health, mother, relationships, self awareness, self esteem, separation, women on April 29, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
I was reading recently a blog by Laura Young called ‘The dragons slayers guide to life’ a great site that has a wonderful series on dragon slaying you could read – it might help you identify some dragons in your life and some ways of dealing with them. Then comes along another post by Craig [...]
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