http://enuff.wordpress.com/2008/02/26/confrontation/ moving on from a deep depression and living like me for a change Sun, 19 Apr 2009 23:15:28 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 http://enuff.wordpress.com/2008/02/26/confrontation/#comment-718 Vanessa Tue, 01 Apr 2008 14:14:33 +0000 http://enuff.wordpress.com/?p=39#comment-718 I am going through a very similar trial to my well being. Thank you for being a wonderful outside perspective. I took alot away from your post. I am going through a very similar trial to my well being. Thank you for being a wonderful outside perspective. I took alot away from your post.

]]> http://enuff.wordpress.com/2008/02/26/confrontation/#comment-717 Guinevereyw Mon, 24 Mar 2008 15:41:03 +0000 http://enuff.wordpress.com/?p=39#comment-717 thats it, bro thats it, bro

]]> http://enuff.wordpress.com/2008/02/26/confrontation/#comment-713 Dave Tue, 18 Mar 2008 04:51:35 +0000 http://enuff.wordpress.com/?p=39#comment-713 Great post Jen, as you know 'some' of my history, I won't go too far into it. I certainly am in no position to 'constructively' or otherwise, criticize except to say, that you're moving along at a clip far faster than *I* ever achieved. As far as I can see, you're already well aware of the pitfalls 'my inflated ego' at the time, encountered, what do they say? "Pride cometh before the fall"? Not to place 'blame' I've played the blame game for far too long, and on too many occasions, but I WILL say, my ego[Easing God Out], allowed me to think, I could 'be' with someone who was EVERYTHING I had been working to rid myself of for a number of years, and actually believe MY positive could influence her negative.......and bit off FAR more than I could chew!! Your post held up 'the mirror' (an old Spooky Tooth lyric comes to mind...'I looked into the mirror, and the Devil smiled both times, my flesh was sold with no feeling, with no reason or rhyme.........the mirror looked through Hell, and damned me where I fell'). for me. I knew, within 2 weeks it would never work, did I 'confront her'? No, I "lived the lie" for 10 years, until I'd lost EVERYTHING, and unraveled all my hard work, right past the first stitch...and THEN some! If I can share any one thing with you, that could be construed as a 'pearl of wisdom' given to me, in a slightly different form, years ago, that I have since found to be soooo true, it's this; Don't stop, you're on a journey with NO destination, don't stop,[here I am, dropping cliche's all over the place]. 'A rolling stone gathers no moss' This stone stopped rolling, and it is just so God-awful hard to get rolling again, thank God for people like you, helping to show me that it's NOT over yet, I CAN get moving again, just need to keep taking these excruciatingly small steps. Thanks for being you, Luv ya [[HUGS]] Dave Great post Jen, as you know ’some’ of my history, I won’t go too far into it. I certainly am in no position to ‘constructively’ or otherwise, criticize except to say, that you’re moving along at a clip far faster than *I* ever achieved. As far as I can see, you’re already well aware of the pitfalls ‘my inflated ego’ at the time, encountered, what do they say? “Pride cometh before the fall”? Not to place ‘blame’ I’ve played the blame game for far too long, and on too many occasions, but I WILL say, my ego[Easing God Out], allowed me to think, I could ‘be’ with someone who was EVERYTHING I had been working to rid myself of for a number of years, and actually believe MY positive could influence her negative…….and bit off FAR more than I could chew!!
Your post held up ‘the mirror’
(an old Spooky Tooth lyric comes to mind…’I looked into the mirror, and the Devil smiled both times, my flesh was sold with no feeling, with no reason or rhyme………the mirror looked through Hell, and damned me where I fell’).
for me. I knew, within 2 weeks it would never work, did I ‘confront her’? No, I “lived the lie” for 10 years, until I’d lost EVERYTHING, and unraveled all my hard work, right past the first stitch…and THEN some! If I can share any one thing with you, that could be construed as a ‘pearl of wisdom’ given to me, in a slightly different form, years ago, that I have since found to be soooo true, it’s this;
Don’t stop, you’re on a journey with NO destination, don’t stop,[here I am, dropping cliche's all over the place]. ‘A rolling stone gathers no moss’
This stone stopped rolling, and it is just so God-awful hard to get rolling again, thank God for people like you, helping to show me that it’s NOT over yet, I CAN get moving again,
just need to keep taking these
excruciatingly small steps.
Thanks for being you,
Luv ya [[HUGS]]
Dave

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