Well it has been a rough couple of weeks – but I am at home with both my girls at last. Even miss 17 is home. Dad has found alternative accomodation, so now we can settle back into some sort of routine. Oh how nice it was to be back in my own bed!
I know this won’t be home forever. Our house is on the market and I face the prospect of what to do then and that all depends on how the selling of this house goes down. But the Home bit is important…for the moment the three girls -all getting along together and back to work and school routines. It is nice, pleasant, not yet in a perpetual state of ‘happy’ but getting happier. I don’t think there could ever be a totally ‘happy’ – there’s always going to be something that comes with lifes highway of learning that like to pick holes in the balloon of happiness. In those moments you do need to sit back and smell the roses, and do a bit of thinking and creating.
Craig Harper has just done Adaptation = Happiness… or does it?
Well I have to agree with him 100% on this one. He aptly describes the kind of person I have moved on from and the kind of person I wish to become…I hope my girls can also gorw like this – now that the
the lump of clay that has set; no longer able to be moulded or shaped.
“Don’t bend, twist or stress me; I’ll break.”
“This is me… I’m done.”
“I’ve learned all I’m gonna learn, get off my case.”
has gone from their daily lives. Instead they will see adaptability, that no problem cannot be overcome somehow and that life is about learning, adapting and changing. This is what is important in my home.
